Wow. I ran accross this in my notebook today. I totally forgot about my little mini series with these definitions and things. So here is a definition that I actually wrote a couple of months ago, but wasn't ready to post because it had some meaning to me. It still kind of does, but I have gotten over it.
Moving on. That is what I am going to define. It may mean something different for some of you out there, but I think this is generally what moving on should be. It is something that took me a long time to figure out myself. What I have finally found, though, is that moving on does not mean going out and finding something, or someone new. It means letting go of the past. Yes, sometimes in the process of moving on, you find something or someone else, and that is okay, but you don't have to find something else in order to move on. I see a lot of people that take moving on as finding someone or something new, and that's just not the case. You can find something new and still not have completely moved on. Moving on may take time. Letting go may take time. It is okay. Time may be the best thing for someone who is moving on. Forgiveness may be needed, depending on the situation. (If anyone has questions about that one, they can look to my Definitions pt. 1). So when you are trying to move on from someone or something, don't let your first instinct be to find something new. Just work on letting go.
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